See my edit above for the background of my problem.
I have to say that I give up; I had intended to use mp3tag as step 2 of my workflow, for filtering, but it becomes way too complicated now. I just read one column in step 1 into an array, then the other column in step 1 into the next dimension of the same array, then filter the array, all in AutoHotkey, then do the (manual, as intended in mp3tag) folder renames from the filtered subset in there.
If it's considered "wrong" that the Filename column contains complete filenames, or if it's considered "wrong" that it contains naked filenames, then, considering that my columns contain 3 types of data in the 2 columns:
. name.suffix = name.suffix
. name.suffix != name.suffix
. name.suffix != name
. there is no data of "name = name" (both without suffix) which would have been the fourth alternative here
then it becomes evident that at least one of my tries "IS 1", or "IS 0", should have provided some subset, be it a tiny subset, or then a very big subset (4 alternatives here), but ANY subset (even a wrong / partly wrong one) - whilst, as said, IS 1 and IS 0 always either provided the whole set, or an empty set.
So, mp3tag trying to do "smart" things behind the scenes, instead of just treating the column data "as is" (it should have done so either for the name.wav entries, or for the justname entries, without the .wav part, but provides no subset whatsoever), I have no chance with my not-yet "normalized" data, and I have to give up on mp3tag: I can not "normalize" my data before treating it with mp3tag, I had intended to use it to help me to normalize it, manually.
Every time I try to use mp3tag (because of its overwhelming good word of mouth in the web), I just lose several (this time) / many (last time) hours. All the more so since this time, the necessary code for comparing / differing within step 1, I already have it at hand (since written for another task in there).
(Btw, I would expect that the nakedfilename, suffix, completefilename is not stored one by one within the file metadata, but that in there is just filename, with the software then making the derived info available, upon request, in two more, "virtual", columns... which implies the question if the software at hand then automatically updates all three, upon manual editing (which in mp3tag cannot be done within the grid, as said), and in both directions.)