How do I remove track numbers on my mp3 list and renumber them in the order I want?

You can hold down the ⌥ key and drag and drop the files in the order you want. After that, select all via ⌘A and re-number them using the auto-numbering wizard at ⌘K.

If you need the track number as part of the file name, you can Rename Files based on Tags.