There are 2 things: first, I would make the software kick the habbit of creating such puzzling folders.
Second, it would be interesting to see what happens if you delete a desktop.ini after you have renamed a folder. Which name does the folder show then? The old or the new name?
To achieve the goal to see the real name it is sufficient to disable "Read-Only" of the folder.
Just open a windows console window and type attrib foldername (incl. path) -R
Or you can edit the desktop.ini and remove the section [.ShellClassInfo]